Success criteria

Write down, in that party's own terms, the specific condition that would make them say the decision worked. Gains, losses, and fears describe what they experience; this names the finish line they judge by, kept separate per person instead of averaged into one shared verdict.

Write down, in that party's own terms, the specific condition that would make them say the decision worked. Gains, losses, and fears describe what they experience; this names the finish line they judge by, kept separate per person instead of averaged into one shared verdict.

Example

On the house grid, the kids' line reads "same school through graduation." Your spouse's reads "cook Sunday dinners here without dreading the payment." Yours reads "commute under 50 minutes by year two." Three different bars, and the 70-minute drive already fails one.