Decision-changing alternative

This door refuses to answer the question and rewrites it instead. You find a move that changes what you are deciding, usually by buying information or removing the constraint that made the two options exclusive, so the original either/or stops being the live question.

This door refuses to answer the question and rewrites it instead. You find a move that changes what you are deciding, usually by buying information or removing the constraint that made the two options exclusive, so the original either/or stops being the live question.

Example

Instead of choosing job or nonprofit, you take a three-month unpaid sabbatical. Now the question is no longer "which life," it is "did 12 weeks inside conservation work still feel like the dream on week 10?" The answer arrives before you risk the mortgage.